Home & Object Permanence
The Fridge Door Swap
Section titled “The Fridge Door Swap”What to do: Store condiments in the crisper drawers, and put fresh produce in the door and on the main shelves.
Why it works: You’ll hunt for ketchup when you need it, but you’ll forget spinach exists if it’s hidden in a drawer. Keeping perishables at eye level reduces food waste.
Doom Boxes
Section titled “Doom Boxes”What to do: “Didn’t Organize, Only Moved.” Instead of organizing every item while cleaning, sweep all the random clutter into a designated basket to clear surfaces instantly.
Why it works: It clears the visual chaos in seconds. Crucial: you must schedule a time to sort the box, or it becomes a black hole.
Remove Cabinet Doors
Section titled “Remove Cabinet Doors”What to do: Take the doors off cupboards or closets you use most (or swap them for glass).
Why it works: It combats object permanence — if you can see your dishes, pasta, and clothes, you’re far more likely to use them and keep them organized.
The “No-Fold” Laundry System
Section titled “The “No-Fold” Laundry System”What to do: Stop folding. Use a bin system — one for tops, one for bottoms, one for socks — and throw clean clothes straight into the bins.
Why it works: Folding is a high-effort, low-reward task. Removing it makes the whole laundry process about 50% easier to finish.
Point-of-Performance Storage
Section titled “Point-of-Performance Storage”What to do: Keep items exactly where you use them, not where they “belong.” Toothpaste in every bathroom, scissors in every room, trash bags in the bottom of the trash can.
Why it works: It removes the friction of walking to another room for a tool — which is exactly where distraction strikes and things get abandoned.
Permission to Use Paper Plates
Section titled “Permission to Use Paper Plates”What to do: During a depressive or burnout episode, switch to paper plates and plastic utensils. It’s a tool, not forever.
Why it works: It’s an accessibility accommodation. Prioritizing your mental health over “doing dishes” breaks the cycle of shame and mess. Survival mode is valid.